The loss of a baby brings overwhelming grief. Whether it happens before or shortly after birth, the impact is devastating and often lasts for years. Yet, parents are often unable to access the professional help they need. This book provides a sympathetic and expert explanation of the common recognized causes, along with important information concerning parents’ rights, including difficult topics as post mortems and inquests. It covers parents’ reactions, not least feelings of anger, particularly where parents blame professionals for their loss, and the relationship difficulties that often follow the loss of a baby. This book also provides a guide to good practice for professionals, particularly in the area of stillbirth.

the law – changes to legal definitions of stillbirth
the duty of health professionals to conduct investigations
practical guidance and advice
the effect on a relationship
grief and how it manifests
coping with anxiety and depression
support from friends and relatives
how other children in the family may be affected
prevention and treatment - future pregnancies

Professor Gournay, who himself lost a child to stillbirth, and distinguished midwife Dr Brenda Ashcroft, offer understanding of what it means to go through this bereavement, and healing advice on how to make sense of it.