Who said relationships werent funny? Toby Smith has captured the good, the bad, the hilarious and the ugly of getting the guy, losing the guy and wearing yourself out to get the guy again. Readers are certain to see themselves, a girlfriend, a cousin an auntie or someone they know in this nonformulaic handbook for those seeking love. Forget about 30 days to a new man or 10 ways to win his heart while making jello! You will spend your time laughing out loud at the antics used to win over very memorable characters such as, friend for life hat man super hungry man and militant man. In between the laughter, Toby will share her tears, lessons about growth and how she came to the ultimate realization that love, like the bloom of a rose, always unfolds right on time.