level of dignity and respect is a good thing - to look presentable and to do things well gives glory to God. But sometimes we find it difficult to admit mistakes, or accept rejection. We feel deep hurt and we stay angry. The root of this, explains RT Kendall, is pride. Which we will never admit to because of our pride! With honesty RT helps us through this tricky subject and points us to the wisdom and true strength that lies in humility, leaving room for us to be lifted up, and even honoured by the one whose opinion matters most of all. He points us to Jesus, who was completely humble, and gave us a perfect example of a powerful life lived without conceit, smugness or arrogance.