This work is about male sexuality. Not another book about technique or playboy fantasies, but about what it feels like to be a man, a son, a lover, a father. Written in accessible, non-technical language, this book will encourage men to talk about their sexuality in an entirely new way. It is a book for men of the "baby boomer" generation who, though liberated in many ways, are still sexually inarticulate and unable to express their deepest feelings. It is a book for young men, constantly overwhelmed by porno-erotic imagery, who don't know what to make of their feelings and how to place themselves in a world of plastic supermodels and pumped up superstars. And it is a book for women, baffled by the men in their lives and their inability to speak about or even know what they feel. This book should get people talking: man to man, father to son, and lovers to each other.

Translated by: Anne Trager, Christopher Fleischner