"When you have done all you can do, put it in the Lord's hands. He will carry you because he wants you to be happy. A marriage where you are abused and miserable is not in his plan for you. When you are ready to put it into his hands, the way is already paved. We just have to be willing to trust him and run with it. Now, I'll be the first to admit, it seems easier squeezing ourselves into an ant hill with a big fat cupcake than let go. But as my Daddy used to say "Just do it", and put it into his hands. And I doubt you're up for jumping into an ant hill today so gain your strength, say a prayer, a really good one, and put it into his hands. It's time."