Why are some of our worst fights with the ones we love best? This is a question all of us have asked from time to time. But have faith! in this book. you will learn that these conflicts are normal. In fact, if you follow the author's prescription they can guide you to the most enduring strengths and higest pleasures of your relationship. By employing the author's twelve easy-to-use tools, you can settle your differences with loved one quickly and amicably. You can move through the combat zones with love and caring, instead of falling prey to out-and-out wars, brooding silences or ongoing hostility. This book is packed with real life anecdotes, along with easy-to-follow instructions that will have you and your partner observing, listening and reaching out to each other even when you are most upset. Written in a warm, personal style, this book is invaluable for anyone who dreams of building a supportive and loving relationship.