Loss of love is a universal theme. Abandonment is a primal fear. Divorce severs not only connection to others but often to ourselves, becoming a breeding ground for separation anxiety and intense feelings of low self-worth. This title is a personal story of one woman's journey through abandonment and divorce. It is a naked inquiry into the anguish of her loss, not only physical loss but also the loss of a sense of self. Based on journals kept over three years, the story is intimately written. Woven through this nakedly honest record of divorce, is a second voice - the voice of a wise woman. She offers an inspired alternative, and explains how traumatic life experiences can be approached as an opportunity for new growth, greater fulfilment, true intimacy and creativity.