The idealization of love allows a lover to appreciate the loved one different from what he/she in fact is: perhaps by administering virtues and memorable characteristics that they do not possess in order to choose the correct partner. A unilateral and imposed relationship sometimes becomes dangerous for he who does not share the same intensity of love. The tendency to believe to be what one is not, "bovarism" (from Madame Bovary), is what inevitably blinds the vision of the other, and that is the main subject that.