SELECTIVE IMPOTENCE is a memoir of recovery from physical and emotional impotence. Daniel was a male bulimic driven by a feminine self-image and performance anxiety. At twenty-three years old, he was still a virgin when he met Pamela, the woman who would cure him. Daniel's recovery from impotence was a sexual odyssey that covered many years and many women, with Pamela coming before and after all of them. SELECTIVE IMPOTENCE is a true and compelling story about what it is like to overcome one's own fear in a struggle to find intimacy, if not love.