The nestling phenomenon is well known. And it is even spreading more and more: adult children stay at home, refuse to move out and stand on their own two feet. You have developed dysfunctional addiction. Their attitude towards parental all-round care goes hand in hand with financial and social irresponsibility and even addictive behavior. As soon as the parents try to break out of their granting and protective role, these young "inadults" react with demonstrations of power, which can also be violent. A pathological relationship pattern develops that dominates family life and can persist for many years. Haim Omer's tried and tested therapy concept of nonviolent resistance and the new authority supports parents of dysfunctional adolescents and young adults to break free from their powerlessness or even submission. The aim of counseling or therapy is functional dependency that is adequate for all involved.